Moving?
5 02 2008Grumpysis is thinking of moving north to the town I grew up in. My parents still live there as do a lot of my friends. I really want to follow her there. I’m so tired of this city life. Living in rain for 8 months of the year. This place is so depressing. Ya there’s potential here, ya there’s a Wal Mart and a Costco within 15 minutes but seriously, I feel trapped in this area.
Hubby is thinking about it too. It would be amazing if he agreed to move out there. I think being in a small town that actually see sunshine most of the summer and winter is a good idea. Plus I hate thinking of raising my kids in the city. I’d LOVE the idea of having my parents close by and some of my very best friends who also have kids now. We’d just have to know that Hubbs could make enough money out there.
It’s a frightening idea, moving. We just bought our own place this summer. It was awful having to move, I hate it. PLUS Hubby has a sibling out here who’s wife is one of my best friends. They have a child too which I’d hate to take my kids away from. MIL would have a mental breakdown as well. She’s a psycho sometimes. She hated it when Hubbs started dating me because I live out here and she lives half-way across the country. She has this irrational unnatural attachment to her children and she’d blow a gasket if we moved away from here because that would make it more difficult to see us as well as her other son out here. She really is very crazy.
I’m starting to think I don’t care though. Hubbs doesn’t care to see his brother anyway. They’re more like accquaintances. My SIL and I always make sure we get together often. Otherwise Hubbs and his bro would never ever see each other. Such a weird family. I’m used to my siblings being my best friends.
There are many more pluses to minuses in my mind to moving. If my Grumpysis moves there I’ll be heartbroken. She’ll be sad too because her and I are best friends and she’s madly in love with my kids. I know I’d be leaving Psychosis out here but that doesn’t really bother me that much. She’s on a different universe than I am.
I’m scared I’ll start to resent my husband if he makes me stay in this God forsaken mud hole.
Anyway, gosh I’m thankful for this blog. It’s nice to be able to talk about people without fearing that they’ll be reading.
The list of characters keeps growing!
It sounds like some of the shortcomings that you see in your husband may come from his family (distant from his brother; overweening mother). Bad families can do a lot of damage.
Ya there’s loads of characters in my life. Mainly family.
It’s ALL his mom’s fault. You just wait until I start venting about her. Ha ha ha.
I did a little venting on my mom, myself. You may not want to read it.